I miss him and I can't stop trying to find him. I love him now just if not as strongly as I did before. Long story short, after 3 years since we dated, I am over him. I was the one that divorced him. I only mention him when my friends bring him up on occasion (I guess they think I don't love him anymore). Then, I made myself do something drastic, that would change my life. I do miss my ex after 10 years divorced. I believe during that time my illness became worse, which affected our marriage. Question: I was in a serious relationship during my college days. (Granted, it was a pretty hot and steamy year). (If you have to see your ex at school, keep your encounters short and sweet.) I guess I just want to know, is this normal? We divorced 5 years later. My life progressed through ups and downs. Your ex might not understand all of that. It lasted three years and ended very painfully for me. We are both successful professionals and have two beautiful children together. Explain to your ex that you need some time to yourself, and avoid seeing him or her as well as you can. I was married before him, have dated and had serious relationships after him, including my husband now who I have been with for 8 years. I worked for a while after graduating, then went to graduate school, moved across the country, and established my career. I met a lovely woman and we married 10 years ago. I know times have changed, he even has two kids now from what I've heard. And yet 20 years later I still think of Sarah. It has been 7 years and I still miss my ex-girlfriend. Tough Love; By Jennifer Still; You broke up a while ago and you’re totally over your ex—you don’t think about them during your day to day life and you certainly don’t miss them… until you do. I still think about him and miss him everyday. facebooktwitterincom. My ex husband left our family 7 years ago for my (single w/2 kids) friend. Why You Suddenly Miss Your Ex Out Of Nowhere & What To Do About It. What I'm trying to say is, don't let him hold you back. OUR 2 sons are young men now, but I find it difficult to move ahead with my life. I feel like a emotional nut job! We married right out of college.